Counseling & Psychological Services

  • Welcome to the

    Counseling & Psychological Services at Southampton.

    We are here to support SES students and families. Please explore the links below for a variety of helpful resources.

    • Mrs. Kaitlin Hamilton, School Psychologist 631-591-4811
    • Douglas Grable LMSW, Student Assistance Counselor 631-591-4807
    • Gwendolen Arnzen, School Counselor 631-591-4805
  • Book Resources for Parents


    • Talking About Divorce: A dialogue between Parent and Child by Earl A. Grollman
    • My Friend Has Four Parents by Margaret O. Hyde
    • How it Feels When Parents Divorce by Jill Krementz
    • Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families by Laurene Krasney Brown

    Websites for Divorce:



    • Remembering Grandma by Teresa Armas (Spanish and English)
    • The Goodbye Boat by Mary Joslin
    • When A Pet Dies by Fred Rogers
    • Badger’s Parting Gifts by Susan Varley

    Website for Bereavement:

    Friendship (Boys)

    • A Couple of Boys have the Best Week Ever by Marla Freeze
    • My Friend Charlie by James Flora
    • Enemy Pie by Derek Munson
    • Harry, Willy and Carrothead by Judith Casely

    Friendship (Girls)

    • The New Girl by Rowan McAuley
    • Surf’s up! By Chrissie Perry
    • All Tutus Should Be Pink by Sheri Brownrigg
    • Annie Bananie by Leah Komaiko


    • The Recess Queen by Alexis O’Neill
    • The Bully From the Black Lagoon by Mike Thaler
    • How To Face A Bully by Valerie Wesley
    • Stand Tall Molly Lou Melon by Patty Lovell

    Websites for Bullying:


    Self Esteem

    • Just the Way I Am by Sean Covey (7 Habits Picture Book)
    • What I do Best by Allia Nolan
    • I’m Gonna Like Me by Jamie Curtis
    • Ella the Elegant Elephant by Carmela and Steven D’Amico

    Websites for Self Esteem:


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School Counseling Update

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